Dad’s heartbreaking appeal after just two friends turn up to autistic daughter’s 5th birthday party

Dad’s heartbreaking appeal after just two friends turn up to autistic daughter’s 5th birthday party

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A HEARTBROKEN dad has issued an appeal after only two people turned up to his autistic daughter’s 5th birthday party.

Remi, aged five, hoped to celebrate her birthday at the Eden Play Centre in Abertillery, Wales, with 10 friends.

Remi appears rather sad as she looks at her special birthday cake
PJ Robins/Media Wales
Remi tucks into party food after expressing her sadness at the lack of people at her party
PJ Robins/Media Wales

But two people got in touch on the day to say they were ill and the others didn’t even bother to respond.

Dad PJ Robins felt like a “knife went in his heart” when Remi asked her mum Becky, “where are all of my friends?”

PJ explained: “It was really very sad that none of them had bothered to respond really.

“One of the things with the autistic spectrum is that last minute changes are terribly distressing, especially to Remi.

“We’d already told her about the party and that we’d invited her friends so she was expecting her friends to be there.

“At one point she turned around and said ‘Mummy, where are all of my friends?’ and that was like a knife in the heart.”

Please help our little girl celebrate

Dad PJ Robins

PJ, who moved to Abertillery in 2017 with Remi’s mum Becki, then posted on a local community group on Facebook, asking for people to drop by.

In his post, he said: “Please, if anybody has some free time and has a child around my daughter’s age – would you be willing to help us make her party a day to remember.

“We don’t expect anything, not cards or gifts, the part is all paid for and there’s plenty of food, we just want some children to come help our little girl celebrate.”

And the response was incredible – around 14 children and parents turned up and stayed at the party, and a number of random people turned up to wish Remi a “happy birthday” after seeing the post.

The post was shared more than 1,000 times and PJ said he received around 60 messages from people who’d seen his appeal.

“Remi was a little bit bewildered, if I’m honest,” said PJ. “She had two friends there and then suddenly she had all these other people wishing her happy birthday.

“She was just looking around like ‘what?’,” he added with a laugh.

PJ said: “The response was truly overwhelming, and we’re still receiving messages from people in connection with the appeal, asking for our address so they can send cards, or drop in and meet Remi.

“A lot of people have also reached out with their own stories of parenting children on the autistic spectrum, offering their support, playdates, and so on.”

“The Eden Centre were fantastic as well, and their support was wonderful.

“I can’t praise them highly enough.”

PJ added: “Thank you to everybody who came down and brought their children.”

Remi blows out the candles on her birthday cake with only two of her little friends at her party
PJ Robins/Media Wales

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